What is the Hanen “It Takes Two to Talk” Program?
For parents of children with language delays, the Hanen "It Takes Two to Talk" program offers a structured and evidence-based approach to help foster better communication. This program is designed for young children with language delays and focuses on equipping parents with the tools they need to become their child's primary language teacher. The program emphasizes the importance of everyday interactions in boosting language development. Parents are taught how to create rich language-learning environments through play, routines, and conversations.
It Takes Two to Talk is suitable for parents with children age 2-6
How It Helps Parents and Kids
The beauty of “It Takes Two to Talk” is that it empowers parents to take an active role in their child's language development. It teaches strategies that parents can use during daily routines—like mealtime, bath time, or playtime—to encourage communication. These simple but powerful techniques are tailored to each child's unique level of communication and help them progress at their own pace. By using real-life scenarios, parents can make language learning natural and meaningful for their child, fostering both confidence and engagement.
Actionable Tip 1: Follow Your Child’s Lead
One of the core strategies taught in the program is following your child’s lead. This means observing what your child is interested in and joining in on their play or activity. By doing so, you create an opportunity to engage with them at their level. For example, if your child is focused on building blocks, you can build your own tower next to them and comment on what you are doing. Say things like, “Look, I’m stacking the red block on top!” or, “Wow, your tower is so tall!” This simple interaction creates opportunities for your child to hear new words and encourages them to respond in their way.
Actionable Tip 2: Expand on What Your Child Says
Another key strategy is language expansion, which involves taking what your child says and building on it. If your child says “car,” you can expand by saying, “Yes, it’s a big, blue car!” This helps introduce new vocabulary and structures while staying connected to what your child is already expressing. Expansion not only models more complex language but also keeps the conversation going. For example, during snack time, if your child says “apple,” you can reply with, “You want the apple! The red apple is so juicy!” This method encourages richer language without overwhelming the child.
Actionable Tip 3: Use Repetition and Routines
Repetition is another essential strategy in the Hanen program. By consistently using the same words during familiar routines, you reinforce your child’s understanding and encourage them to use those words themselves. For example, during bath time, you can consistently use phrases like “Wash your hands,” “Splash in the water,” or “Dry off with the towel.” Over time, the predictability of the routine, coupled with the repetition of the same words, helps your child become more confident in using these phrases. Repetition within routines creates a safe, familiar structure for language learning.
Actionable Tip 4: Pause and Wait for Your Child to Respond
Another helpful technique is learning to pause and wait. After asking a question or making a statement, give your child enough time to respond. This waiting period allows them to process what has been said and gives them the space to formulate a reply. For example, if you say, “Do you want more juice?” wait for several seconds before jumping in with additional prompts. This strategy teaches patience and encourages your child to take the initiative in the conversation, building their confidence and communication skills.
